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THE PARADIGM SHIFT IN PARENTING:
HOW TO MAKE IT WORK IN HIGH CONFLICT RELATIONSHIPS

A Practical Guide to Parallel Parenting with a Narcissist 

AVAILABLE NOW at the special launch price! 

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If you’re trying to co-parent with a Narcissist, then I know just how stressed out you are right now: trying to make it work is simply NOT working and your Narcissistic Ex (NEX) is making your life absolute hell.

 

Nothing you do is good enough. They are constantly changing plans, not sticking to their side of the bargain and continuing to turn your world upside down.

 

 

Maybe they are:

  • Making promises to your child that they don’t keep
  • Trying to turn your child against you
  • Issuing threats & abusive texts/emails/voicemails
  • Using emotional blackmail
  • Playing favourites / scapegoating your children
  • Manipulating you and your child
  • Using the full array of Narcissistic Abuse tactics
  • Demeaning and belittling you as a parent
  • Undermining you at every turn
  • Generally making your life as difficult and stressful as possible

Sadly, this is the reality of trying to ‘Co-parent’ with a Narcissist. And it’s why you need something completely different to help you navigate the extremely difficult challenges you’re facing. And I have just the thing to help you! I've talked to 110s of beleagured parents, researched, read, watched countless videos, studied and I've put together the best possible route to rapid Parellel Parenting Success for you.  

Welcome to The Paradigm Shift in Parenting:
A Practical Guide to Parallel Parenting with a Narcissist
 

You do NOT have to go on being the puppet who is constantly dancing to the NEX’s tune. There are tried and tested strategies that YOU can adopt to shift the balance of power in your favour!

 

This online course is going to help you to not only navigate those muddy waters, but to alter the trajectory altogether. It’s going to give you a ton of practical tips, actions and mindset shifts that are going to put you firmly in control.

 

No longer will you be at the mercy of your NEX because I’m going to share with you some incredibly powerful tactics that you can implement quickly – tactics that will work as soon as you apply them.

 

What I’m covering in this series of 14 Videos will give you a new perspective on how you can take control back from the NEX and start Parallel Parenting with confidence whilst saving your sanity and building a better relationship with your kids.

 

Take a look at what I'm covering in this course below: 

THE PARADIGM SHIFT IN PARENTING:

A Practical Guide to Parallel Parenting with a Narcissist 

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VIDEO NO 1

 

 

The Paradigm Shift in Parenting: Welcome, and Introduction to The Parallel Parenting Course. If your attempts to ‘co-parent’ have been fraught with hassles created by the NEX, then this is going to be highly valuable for you. I know the struggles you’re going through in trying to raise your children when one parent is a Narcissist. This course will help you put a stop to it.

 

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VIDEO NO 2

 
 
Divorce/Separation/Split - How bad does it get? It’s going to be tough but you can vastly improve your situation and I’ll be sharing lots of tips on how! What does it look like when you divorce or split from a Narcissist? How bad does it get? When the mask comes off, so do the gloves and you need to be prepared for the fight.

 

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VIDEO NO 3

The Paradigm Shift in Parenting: The strategies I’m going to share with you in this course apply to you regardless of what custody agreement is in place – whether the children reside with you for the majority of the time and see the NEX at agreed times, or whether they reside with the NEX the majority of times and visit you at agreed times.

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VIDEO NO 4

The Vital Parallel Parenting Plan – the 'Devil is in the Details' and this is never truer than when dealing with a Narcissist. I'm including handling all the details of parenting: threats, communication, emotional blackmail and more so you don't keep making the same mistakes over and over again.  

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VIDEO NO 5

Troubleshooting Visits, with 'real-world' examples, How to switch your thinking to a much more empowering one, and knowing when to use Grey Rock.

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VIDEO NO 6

Narcissistic Family Dynamics: All children are NOT created equal when it comes to Narcissists, and I’m covering the Golden Child, Scapegoat and other key roles essential for you to understand so that you can protect your children from the unfairness and dysfunctionality of such parenting. Also, will your child become a Narcissist?   

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VIDEO NO 7

Two winning strategies to change your parenting world. These are absolute game changers! I'm going to show you how you can really start taking your power back by changing your perspective. Once you do this, you swing everything massively in your favour. You put yourself in control. 

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VIDEO NO 8

 

Does divorce damage your children, and should you stay for the sake of the kids? These are questions that are always asked, but what is the right answer? I’m going to give it to you straight so that you know the right answer for YOU.

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VIDEO NO 9

How do you talk to your kids about their Narcissistic parent? Broken promises and managing your child’s disappointment.

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VIDEO NO 10

Parental Alienation, including what to do if your ex is turning your child against you, what if your child is lying to you and should you tell your child that their parent is a Narcissist?

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VIDEO NO 11

Picking your battles, by playing by your rules. You don't have to win every battle, and that's ok. Finding solutions instead of creating problems, plus an excellent exercise to help you achieve inner calm.

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VIDEO NO 12

 

Maintaining your boundaries and independence, managing your expectations, real-world examples, What to do if you don’t have a lawyer, or you’re still Trauma Bonded, and more.  
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VIDEO NO 13

Methods of manipulation under the microscope with tips on how to deal with them when they show up. The NEX will deploy all the narcissistic tactics you’ve come to know and hate, to manipulate and triangulate you and your children. I’m going to show you how to not get drawn into the drama and keep yourself and your children grounded.

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VIDEO NO 14

 

 

Helping your child and yourself. I’m sharing guidance and tips on how to put yourself and your child first, with important advice and exercises to help you and your child cope with any bumps in the road caused by the NEX.  

 

 

 

Putting all the tactics in this course to work for you will ensure that you finally have the upper hand and can Parallel Parent whilst finding peace of mind for yourself.  If all of this resonates with you and you’re at your wits’ end with trying to ‘Co-parent’, you owe it to yourself to get this course because if you don’t do something different, everything is going to stay the same… in fact, it typically gets worse, and the cycle of abuse will continue in your children. You can put a stop to it. 

 

 

Click the botton below for the SPECIAL LAUNCH PRICE.

This is a limited time offer of just 

$97 - saving $100 on the Standard Course Price. 

Normal price $197

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SPECIAL BONUSES

In addition, I'm adding 3 very special bonus gifts for you to help you get even more out of this course.  


BONUS NO 1: 60 MINUTE WEBINAR
 

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Is a Narcissist Ruining Your Life? 

Webinar
In this Webinar I'm sharing the 5 Steps to Reclaiming Your Self-Worth. These critical steps will help you understand what caused you to attract a Narcissist into your life, and what you need to do to start fully healing. You'll discover: 

 

  • The Key Types of Narcissist and how they treat you – and no, it’s NOT all in your head!
  • What makes a Narcissist? –  and why it’s not YOUR fault
  • Why you’ve attracted a Narcissist into your life – and why understanding this is a game-changer
  • 5 Key Steps you can take to start reclaiming your power, self-love, and begin your healing journey.


BONUS NOs 2 & 3: TWO STUNNING, MULTILAYERED HYPNOSIS MP3s


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Offload Stress

Value $15

Dealing with a Narcissist. creates a massive amount of stress in your life. This 25-Minute MP3 was specially recorded using classic hypnotic relaxation techniques, dual voice therapy and subliminal suggestion to help even the most stressed individual to offload stress.
 
Coupled with Brainwave Entrainment* binaural beats and a deep delta wave backing track, you will be amazed at how relaxed and de-stressed you feel once you listen to this recording. I recommend repeated listening for best results! Must be used with headphones, and not whilst working, driving or operating machinery.

 

*Caution: Do not listen if you are pregnant, use a pacemaker or are taking psychotropic drugs. Check with your physician first.

 

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Supreme Self-Confidence

Value: $30

Your self-worth and confidence takes a brutal beating when you have been with a Narcissist. This 45-Minute MP3 will help you regain your Self-Confidence. Feeling great about yourself starts on the inside. By changing the negative internal dialogue, you can reprogram your mind to feel instantly more confident.

 

The recording is also multilayered, with Brainwave Entrainment*, and includes a powerful ‘release your limiting beliefs’ exercise which will help you let go of emotional issues that no longer serve you. It will also flood your subconscious mind with powerful subliminal affirmations that will fire up your self-esteem and have your confidence levels soaring day by day. Must be used with headphones, and not whilst working, driving or operating machinery.

 

Caution: Do not listen if you are pregnant, use a pacemaker or are taking psychotropic drugs. Check with your physician first.

What my clients are saying about this course:  

 

 

I think it's amazing!  

‘I think it’s amazing! You have so much covered. The one line of communication is extremely important. I really like the acceptance and detachment part. You also go into gray rocking and not sharing anything personal. It was a nice reminder that I’m doing a lot of things right. The manipulation tactics with the kids never end. I’m really impressed with how well you have everything covered. Wish I had had this 3-4 years ago. This will help a lot of people!

Michael Sunset, Author: A Mind is a Terrible Thing to Manipulate

 

I see all the mistakes I've been making now.   

'Maria your course has shown me very clearly how I kept making the same mistakes over and over again and I was losing my mind because of my ex-wife's ridiculous behaviour. It's incredible how making some simple changes in our arrangment - particularly the one line of communication and thinking about whether I even needed to respond - were eye-opening to me. Before your course I dreaded looking at my phone because I knew there would be dozens of messages filled with accusations, blaming and demands, and I would tie myself in knots trying to figure out how to respond. What a simple gift it was to realise I didn't even have to! I can't thank you enough for putting this course togethehr. It is so desperately needed!' 

Robert J, Texas. 

 

You said it was a 'game changer' and it really is.  

 'We have 4 children together with age range 6 to 15. Your explanation of Family Dynamics was really helpful to me. I could very clearly identify which roles my ex-husband has assigned to our children. I wish I had known about this sooner, but at least now I can make some sense of it and try to even the playing field for all of my kids. I also loved the section on detachment. Thank you!" 

Pam A, London 

 

 

 


A Practical Guide to Parallel Parenting with a Narcissist full course content: 
 

In case you are the kind of person who likes details, I've listed the whole course content here so you can see exactly what I'll be covering. These are all issues that come up again and again for the parent dealing with a Narcissist. And there is a way to deal with every situation, and put yourself back in control! 

 

VIDEO No 1:

Welcome and Introduction to the Parallel Parenting Course & outline 

A word about Child Abuse

 

VIDEO No 2:

Divorce/Divorced/Separated/Split up? Either way, steel yourself, it’s going to be tough but you can vastly improve the situation.

How bad does divorce get?

The Dirty Divorce – HG Tudor

 

VIDEO No 3:

The Paradigm Shift in Parenting: Why ‘Co-Parenting’ with a Narcissist is impossible, and why the ‘new’ Parallel Parenting is the way to go.

Parallel Parenting

 

VIDEO No 4:

The Vital Parallel Parenting Plan

The Devil is in the Details

Threats

Communication Schedule

Emotional Blackmail & Options 1 & 2

Alternative Arrangements for Child Care

Emergencies/School

Pickups/Dropoffs

You Can Decide on Pickup/Dropoffs

 

VIDEO No 5:

Troubleshooting Visits – Examples

Switching your thinking

Grey Rock

 

VIDEO No 6:

Narcissistic Family Dynamics: All children are NOT created equal

The Hero/Golden Child

The Scapegoat Child

The Lost/Invisible/Forgotten Child

The Mascot/Joker Child

Will your child become a Narcissist?

Summary

 

VIDEO NO 7:

Two winning strategies to change your parenting world! Acceptance is Key and Detachment is King.

1.    Acceptance is Key – 5 tips to making it work

2.    Detachment is King / The Rules of Detachment: 3 Vital Questions for freedom

 

VIDEO NO 8

Does Divorce Damage your children?

Should you stay for the sake of the kids?

 

VIDEO NO 9:

How do you talk to your children about their narcissistic parent?

Broken Promises: What to do when the Narcissist parent keeps letting your child down.

Managing your child’s disappointment

 

VIDEO No 10:

Parental Alienation:

What to do if your ex is turning your kids against you?

What if your child is lying to you?

Mind your Ps and Qs

Should you tell your child that their parent is a Narcissist?

 

VIDEO NO 11:

Pick your battles, but play by YOUR rules: Finding solutions instead of creating problems

Examples

Finding solutions instead of creating problems

Think it through and put aside your Indignation Exercise

 

VIDEO No 12: 

Maintaining your boundaries and independence

Accept that you can’t depend on your ex for anything

Expect them to break the rules

Some real-world example & a technique to try

What if you don’t have a lawyer?

Do not share anything with them

 

VIDEO NO 13

Methods of Manipulation under the Microscope

Projection / Triangulation

The NEX and New Kids

The FUN parent versus the REAL parent

Be a fun parent too!

Don’t seek your child’s approval or try to justify yourself

Gaslighting

Excessive Discipline & what can you do?  

 

VIDEO No 14:

Helping your child & yourself

Teach your child emotional intelligence & coping skills

Exercise to release negative feelings

Talk / Validate / Encourage 

Meditation

Your Greatest Gift to Your Child: Self-care & Self-Love

 Get a support system

Visualize the life you want

Get a therapist

 


So there you have it! If you're ready to dive in and start taking charge, putting a stop to the non-stop nightmare of trying to 'Co-Parent' with a Narcissist, and switch to the much more powerful, 'Paradigm Shift in Parenting' then click the button below.  Get 'A Practical Guide to Parellel Parenting' NOW and save yourself years of stress and anxiety!  

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A Little bit about me…

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I'm Maria McMahon, Certified Clinical NLP/Hypnotherapist. I specialise in NLP, Hypnotherapy, Inner Child Healing, Brainwave Entrainment & Life Coaching. I provide unique, customised, person-centred therapy to help people rapidly recover from Narcissistic Abuse, Childhood Abuse and the resultant PTSD, C-PTSD, nightmares, insomnia, anxiety & other problems caused by abuse. I help you regain your trust in yourself and find your source of infinite Self-Worth after Narcissistic Abuse. 

 

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